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Tuesday 13 January 2015

What is more important to be happy: Reasons or Options?

I have heard somewhere that " the same opportunity never knocks twice.The next may be better or worse,but it's never be the same again."My mind is always occupied with so many thoughts, so many questions...when i look at today's world ...look into the lives of people....i always notice that troubles and pessimism are increasing exponentially  while peace of mind and optimism are decreasing even at greater pace.....and when i think of the root cause of negativity filled in our world...the answer is lying within me...and yes i understand how negativity arrives in the mind's of the people and took the huge place in their heart's and we are the only one who grants it to be within us even after knowing its ill effects. Negativity is like termite which is swallowing us day by day.....but question arises in my mind that why we are not aware of our negative attitude....again the answer is lying within me..Human nature generally resists change. Change is uncomfortable. Regardless of its positive or negative effect, change can be stressful. Sometimes we get so comfortable with our negativity that even when the change is for the positive, we don't want to accept it. We stay with the negative.....Now a days people lacking character, commitment,conviction, courtesy and courage...they dumbed all five C's.Well, without diverting my mind from my actual concern which is "What is more important to be happy: Reasons or Options?"....again the answer lies within me...first of all i want to throw the light on options...what are they?....the choices that we have or the choices that we make...whatever it is because choices always have consequences.We are free to make our choice but after we have chosen, the choice controls us. We have equal opportunity to be unequal. The choice is ours. Life can be compared to a pottery maker who shapes clay in any form he wants. Similarly, we can mold our lives into any shape we want....but now the question arises do the things end here? What happen after making the best choice that we thought was best...all turned out well...yes????????
I guess No....because its true "Jannat Zameen Par Nahi Banti"....If life is full of choices then likewise it is full of compromises too.Life is not just party and pleasure; it is also pain and despair. Unthinkable things happen. Sometimes everything turns upside down. Bad things happen to good people.So if the ball bounced that way, sorry. But what do we do from here; cry or take the ball and run? That is a choice we have to make.

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